When you understand the spiritual dimensions of life, it will automatically put you in a position of victory giving you the ability to interpret life situations from spiritual perspectives instead of the physical perspective.
1 corinthians 2:13 says “This is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom but in words taught by the Spirit, explaining spiritual realities with Spirit-taught words”
Your life and its entirety as a believer are spiritual, when you begin to reduce yourself from the spiritual realm down to the physical and intellectual realm then you become ordinary.
You can open up to the realm of the spirit through the lenses of the word of God. Colossians 3.6 says Let the word of God dwell richly in you in all wisdom.
The word of God inside of you will open up channels within you enabling you to see clearly, knowing for the fact that humans are indeed spirits and not just flesh.
The more of the Word you know the more the spirit of God begins to guide you and tilt your interpretation to spiritual things.
Never judge anything from the Physical realm.